Once I’ve got a slimmer waist, a tauter tummy, slimmer thighs, clearer skin, glossier hair… THEN I’ll feel attractive.
Once the house is cleaned, the laundry is washed and ironed, the beds are freshly made and the fridge is fully stocked…. THEN I’ll feel like a domestic goddess.
Once my children are fed a nutritious, home-cooked meal, entertained with creative play, nurtured with quiet interaction, bathed in nasty-free bubbles and settled soundly…. THEN I’ll feel like a good mummy.
Once I’ve got that promotion or secured a new business partnership, been recognised by my peers, increased my income…. THEN I’ll feel like a professional success.
Once I’ve made the perfect romantic gesture, created quality time to talk and listen, shown gratitude for the positives and shown patience with the frustrations… THEN I’ll feel like a good wife/partner.
Once I’ve done a regular 30-minutes cardio three times a week, 20-minutes conditioning, 15-minutes meditation and drunk my daily green juice… THEN I’ll feel healthy.
Once I’ve called my friends and family, recognised birthdays and celebrations with thoughtful gifts and meaningful sentiments, spent quality time with all the important people in my life… THEN I’ll feel like a loving friend/daughter/sister/auntie.
What if you stopped waiting until THEN?
What if you chose right now that you are enough?
How about choosing that you are the perfect version of yourself right now?
You are right where you are meant to be.
This is your story. Celebrate it.
What happened yesterday has gone.
What will happen tomorrow is yours for the taking.
You are who you are and where you are right now for a reason….
You can choose.
You can choose to feel attractive.
You can choose to recognise all you do to create a nurturing home, be a nurturing mummy, a loving wife, a professional success.
You can choose to BE the you that you want to be right now.
Imagine what that would feel like.
How would you act differently? What would you choose to do right now? How would you choose to be with the people around you? What would be important for you to have in your life? What wouldn’t be important?
You are doing the very best with what you have.
My lovely, you are doing a great job – be gentle with yourself.